A Nine-gated Palace

A bona fide husband Dear husband, Ever since I married you, life has become roller coaster ride. I married you with the thought that ours will be different and special couple. May be the thought of being different was too attached with my personal liking of adorning 'different' things. Well ! Now recently after good 12 years of marriage, I realised that we are also a regular couple. We also have differences on regular issues, and debate on trivial problems. We were trying to be different from other couples but it is in this effort we were losing our spontaneity. The only thing which is there till now is Love.   But after few years love takes new definition of 'Necessity'.  We now talk only about problems of the house without coming to conclusion of deciding on its solution. We are intimate when it is required, that too without any candle lights or beach walks. :) We argue on issues related to kids, finances, career and investment. It was my mistake I sha...

On'India's daughter' -banned video on Nirbhaya gang rape case .  Why this video is banned? Because it shows incompetencies of authorities, our patriarchy society, our culture which consider women as an object, sick mindset of our society, poverty, unemployment, environment full of violence and atrocities, our soft implementation of law and order, loopholes In criminal laws, juvenile laws etc.  If it is banned in India, then there isn't any point in doing so. As we all know about our culture and society. Because we all are aware of these dark facets of our beloved country. And if it's banned all over world then that also doesn't make any sense as a citizen of some other far off country why the hell should I be concerned. We all have right to speak our mind, so do Criminals, lawyers, rapist, murderers etc. If the rapist says that girls are meant to be at home, they should provoke boys to rape them and the victim should not have fought back and allowe...